Labrador Puppy Happiness Unleashed: 10 Must-Know Tips for Pet Parents
On the day you bring your Labrador puppy home, their needs are few. Essentially, a happy puppy is a puppy that feels safe.
Preferably in your arms, or trotting along at your feet.
Your puppy is just a baby, and needs to be warm, well fed, and loved. But they also need to learn to cope with the new and strange things that life will throw at them.
Your Challenge!
Your job is a bit of a balancing act. Keeping your puppy happy, whilst ensuring that they are educated in the ways of our curious human world, and that they learn to behave appropriately. And this balancing act can be challenging!
Here are a few tips to help you along the way. In addition to food, love and protection, there are 10 things that you’ll need to provide, in order to have a truly Happy Puppy.
1. A Place Of Safety
Puppies enjoy being close to their grown ups. This is natural and normal. It makes them feel safe. Puppies also feel safe if they have a den, a place of safety, like the whelping box or nest where they were born, to rest in when they are on their own.
Recreating this ‘nest’ in your own home takes a little time because your home seems strange and new to the puppy at first.
Many people use a crate for their puppy’s new den. It will take several days for the crate to feel like ‘home’. But you can hurry that process up by leaving the door open all day and leaving food and nice toys in there for your puppy to find.
2. A Calm Environment
Little puppies respond to and reflect the atmosphere around them. If you or your children are very excited, your puppy will get excited too.
He may get very overexcited, which is when biting can get very out of hand. Puppies find it quite hard to ‘calm down’ and so it is important to try and be fairly calm around your small puppy.
Of course, there are bound to be times when, despite your best efforts, your puppy gets a little too over-excited. But, learning how to deal with this can help calm things back down.
3. Many Opportunities To Potty Outside
I get a lot of questions from people that are struggling with potty training because they are expecting a new puppy to go too long without a wee during the day. Sometimes two or three hours.
Some eight week old puppies will empty their bladder in the garden, come indoors and wee again just 15 or 20 minutes later! This is very annoying, but it is a short-lived phase.
In the meantime, you’ll experience success much faster, if you take your puppy out very frequently to begin with. Especially for the first two weeks when your puppy’s ability to wait, is very limited.
4. Restricted Access
Many people find it hard to cope with their puppy simply because they are giving them access to too large an area of the family home. The puppy has no chance of learning to be clean if they cannot be watched constantly by a family member and is far more likely to have accidents on carpets, than on hard floors. That’s because puppies like to pee on soft surfaces.
Your pup will also be constantly in trouble for chewing things they should never have been able to reach.
Baby gates are a brilliant way of restricting very small puppies to a fairly small designated part of your home with washable floors. The puppy can then be gradually introduced to more rooms as they mature.
5. To Be Fed Little And Often
Puppies often have sensitive tummies. Especially in the first few days and weeks in their new home. Most Labrador puppies are greedy and will eat large meals. The quantities on food packet are daily rations and should be divided into at least four portions to begin with.
It’s tempting to cut your puppy down from four meals to three, too soon. And the result is can be a nasty attack of diarrhea, although of course there are other causes of upset stomaches too! Be kind to your puppy’s tummy and feed them little and often. Your pup may look hungry after a meal, but they’ll soon forget about it after a cuddle and trip into the garden.
6. To Be Taken Out
Puppies need to be out and about. There is a small period of time during which puppies can easily accept new experiences. And after which they become fearful of strangers, strange objects, and strange experiences.
This unique time slot is called the window for socialization, and it is all but closed before the puppy is 14 weeks old. So you need to get your puppy out and about, meeting all kinds of people, vehicles, shops, machinery, and so on.
Most experts recommend that you don’t put your puppy down on the ground until his vaccinations are complete, but you can carry him in your arms, or in a strong shoulder bag. If you don’t take your puppy out before this window closes he may be somewhat fearful for the rest of his life. So don’t be tempted to cut corners with this one.
7. To Be Shown How To Earn Rewards
Nowadays we train dogs using positive reinforcement. Essentially this means with rewards. These rewards can be anything he enjoys, from toys, to food, to simply running around.
But puppies need to be shown how to earn rewards the right way. So that we get the right responses from them. It is all too easy to reward your puppy for doing the wrong things. Lots of puppies learn to bark to get attention for example or to jump up to get a stroke.
There are lots of games you can play with puppies to help them learn how to earn rewards. Let the puppy know what you like them doing (with a marker word like YES) and follow it up with a treat. You can start rewarding your puppy like this, for making eye contact with you, right from the very first day.
8. To Learn To Be Happy Alone
All companion dogs need to be alone at times. Even if you don’t go to work, your puppy needs to learn to cope with your absence from time to time. And the best time to learn this skill is when he is small.
As soon as your puppy has settled in to their new den, after the first few days it is time to start leaving them alone for short periods of time.
Pull up a chair and start by getting the puppy used to being shut in the crate with you next to them. When your puppy is happy to be crated while you are there, you can start leaving them for very short periods of time. Just a few seconds to begin with.
9. To Be Let Off The Leash!
Small puppies have a powerful following response – I call this the safety response because they do it to feel safe. If you put an eight week old puppy on the ground and walk away, they will follow you.
If you keep your puppy on a leash for the first six months of their life, when you let the puppy off they will no longer have this following reflex, and you will have wasted a great opportunity to establish this good behavior. Check out below for a demonstration, on teaching the puppy recall.
And don’t forget to let your new little puppy off the lead whenever there is a safe place to do so. So that he can learn to follow in your footsteps as you lead the way in exploring the great wide world.
Obviously this needs to be done in a very safe space. Later on when you take your puppy into a more distracting environment, you should attach a trailing line to their harness for safety.
10. Consistency
Puppies need consistency. If your little one is allowed on the sofa today, he may think he is allowed on the sofa tomorrow. If you feed him from the table today, he’ll beg at the table tomorrow.
Decide what your rules are, and work out how to achieve them.
Find out everything you can about how puppies learn so that you can teach your puppy how to live in our world, with love and kindness. Visit my Dogsnet training website for more information. Not only will you have a very Happy Puppy, but you’ll spend many happy months and years, looking after him.
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I have a 16 yr. old Labrador he has arthritis in his back legs. Have you an̈y experience with leg braces and acupuncture for dogs with arthritis. If so, what is your thoughts on the two. Do they do what they say and do you recommend. I have tried almost everything. And when I take vet all the vet does is hand me a bill and pain meds. When asked what can we do. They tell me let’s take care of his ear infection first. And when I call to schedule a follow up they are 3 to maybe 8 weeks out.
Hi Brian. I’m so sorry to hear your dog is struggling with arthritis. That must be horrible to see. Unfortunately there is no good evidence that acupucture is helpful for dogs. Can I suggest seeking a second opinion, if you aren’t happy with your vet’s approach? It’s important that you feel listened to by your dog’s vet, and that they work with you as a team to provide care for your dog.
Wishing your old boy all the best.
Sammie
Wow, I never knew that feeding puppies very little but very often was the way to go. I had previously assumed that feeding them as much as possible was always the better choice so they have more energy whenever it’s playtime, but your article definitely made sense when it talked about the after-effects of overfeeding. I’ll definitely keep these tips in mind when I find a pet breeder that can get me my first labrador puppy.
I like your tip to train the puppy to sit when he or she wants something and to reinforce that habit with rewards. My niece’s birthday is coming up and she’s always wanted a Labrador-Retriever. We’ve never owned a dog, so your tips will be very helpful.