Do Labradors Need Friends: Should I Get A Second Dog?

Should I get a second dog? Do two dogs have more fun?

It’s a commonly held belief that dogs do better in pairs. No sooner have you brought your dog home, someone is asking when you are going to get a second. But not all dogs need friends, even though they might seem to want them.

If you get two puppies together they can bond with each other to the detriment of the human family. Early puppy training must also be done solo, so there will be several points in the day when one or the other two dogs is left behind. However, major life issues like separation anxiety and the destructive behavior it brings can be reduced by introducing a second dog.


Your Labrador is almost certainly a much loved member of the family. If you are thinking of going from four paws to eight, the chances are that your dog already brings you joy. But it’s worth taking a little pause before choosing to introduce another dog into your home. Ask yourself some questions about your current Labrador.

Second dogs are best introduced when your first is over 2 but under 8 years old, is well trained and has made it clear that they enjoy the company of other canines. But 2 Labradors can be even more than twice the work. And although there are benefits to getting a second dog for many families they are outweighed by the drawbacks.

Even if you tick all the boxes in the reasons to say YES section, you still need to consider how this addition to the family will affect you, and those you live with. Especially if you are planning on bringing a puppy into your lives.

Benefits of a Second Dog

Labradors are very sociable dogs. And they are brilliant family pets. So, at some point in their lives, many Labrador owners will consider getting a second dog.

These are all good reasons to go ahead. If you tick all these boxes, the chances are you may be ready to take the plunge.

Can You Say Yes To All These Points?

  • Your current dog is between two and six years old.
  • They are very well trained.
  • And they have no behavior problems.
  • Your current dog is friendly and in good health.
  • You can afford to feed another dog and insure them against vet bills.
  • You have the time and energy to settle in and train a second dog.
  • And you love spending time with, and training, your dog.

If your dog is always happy to see other members of his species when you take him for walks, and eagerly welcomes your friends’ dogs into the house, then he will probably get on well with the new dog, once he is past the small puppy stage.

Bear in mind however, that many adult dogs find puppies a bit weird and scary to begin with. So the companionship you are hoping for may take some months to develop.

Remember too that ‘settling in’ a puppy is a six month plus project. It will take up quite a lot of your time.

Of course, these are not the only reasons to say yes. And some families that answer NO to some of those questions will still be able to incorporate a second dog happily into their lives.

Reasons To Say No To A Second Dog

Sometimes a person is tempted to get a second dog for the wrong reasons. Or at for reasons that are likely to cause them problems.

These are all reasons to hesitate.

  • Your current dog is very young.
  • Or they are very old.
  • Your current dog is not very obedient.
  • Your current dog is aggressive or nervous.
  • You can’t afford pet insurance or would struggle to meet the cost.
  • You are pregnant or have just welcomed a new baby into your life.
  • Or you are at a very busy time in your life right now.

Let’s look at each of those more closely and at why these situations can cause problems for some families.

Young puppies

If your current dog is less than a year old, the chances are that they are still quite puppyish in some ways.

Boisterous young dogs can be very excitable and overwhelming for a new puppy. Though they may get along brilliantly with a rescue dog of a similar age.

If you plan to get a puppy, it’s worth waiting until your older dog is heading for their second birthday. Otherwise you may have to spend quite a lot of time separating the two of them. And there is a risk of a small puppy being harmed by the older dog.

Elderly dogs

With a senior dog the situation can sometimes be reversed. A young pup can easily torment and older dog and drive it to snapping.

Adding a puppy to a family with a very elderly dog can cause problems.

Some seniors can be wonderful friends for a puppy, but some can be grumpy and will be miserable if tormented by a bouncy youngster.

Again, you’ll need a lot of patience and to be prepared to supervise and separate the two dogs a lot. The same applies if your older dog is in poor health.

Puppies can be very wearing. Ask yourself if your old friend is really up for that right now.

Obedience issues

It’s hard training a puppy with an older dog around and a lot of the training has to be done separately to begin with.

Your life will be a whole lot easier if your older dog is able to “sit and stay” for example, while you give the puppy a treat, or put on his leash.

An untrained older dog will be a real problem for you and you could end up with two out of control dogs on your hands.

Do consider getting your older dog trained first (it’s never too late) and keep a journal of your training progress, it will be invaluable when your new friend finally arrives.

Dog on dog aggression

If your dog is not great at making friends. Or if you have any concerns however about your dog’s fondness for spending time with other dogs, you might want to reconsider before you go and find him a companion.

Taking on an extra dog will not cure your dog that doesn’t like other dogs very much, and could make life very difficult to manage.

When out on walks, if your Labrador shows any signs of aggression or fear towards other dogs then this could well reflect on how he will react to a stranger being introduced into his home.

So it is best to deal with this kind of problem with the help of a behaviorist.

Thinking that a new, friendly dog, will help and aggressive or nervous dog get along better with other dogs can be a big mistake.

Even if you manage to successfully integrate the new dog into your family, it probably won’t change your current dog’s opinion of strange dogs. His reactions might even make your new dog nervous too.

Be cautious too about bringing a new dog into a family where an existing dog is showing signs of food related aggression. Multiple dog households have been linked with this problem  and you don’t want to make things worse.

Other forms of aggression towards people have also been associated with multiple dog households.

In general, it’s important to sort out any behavioral problems in your current dog before bringing another dog into the mix! You could end up with more than double the trouble.

Let’s just consider one reason that many people give for getting another dog. As a friend for their first dog.

Is your only dog a lonely dog?

One of the most common reasons to introduce a new dog into your home may be concerns about your existing dog being lonely.

If you are out at work for part of the day, your dog may well benefit from the company of another dog.

Two dogs can certainly be company for one another when owners are absent. Though if it’s a puppy you are planning, you’ll need to take time off when the puppy is small, or arrange alternative care for a while.

But bear in mind that if your dog is showing signs of distress when left alone, barking for example, bringing another dog into the equations won’t necessarily help

In fact, dogs are more likely to ‘nuisance bark’ in multiple dog households.

And while some dogs with separation anxiety disorder may enjoy and benefit from a new friend, others may be distressed by the dramatic change in their lives.

It’s worth remembering that for the most part, dogs are very happy with their human friends and don’t actually need another dog in the house in order for their lives to be complete.

The Impact Of A Second Dog on You

You may have forgotten the sleepiness nights and the housetraining, but it will all come flooding back when the puppy arrives.

Dealing with a new puppy can be more difficult with another dog around. They step in puddles when you are trying to clean up and generally get in the way.

If children have joined you since your first dog was a puppy, again, this will be a different experience for you. Not necessarily worse, but certainly different.

A dog living with a childless couple often gets a lot more attention than a dog living with a family.

This is only natural because parents are pre-occupied with children and small children tend to lose interest in the dog once the initial novelty has worn off.

Two Dogs, Two Training Sessions

Whilst most people are aware of a puppy’s basic needs with regard to house training and feeding, many are not aware that the second dog needs to be trained separately from the first.

You can’t effectively train a puppy with an older dog milling around.

And sadly, no, puppies do not generally learn obedience by copying the older dog. Though you can be sure that big brother will waste no time teaching him how to bust into the kitchen bin!

Small puppies can’t go for two hour hikes either, so for the first few months you will need to exercise your older dog separately too. These factors are all a drain on your time, so you do need to consider them carefully.

If you are confident that a second dog is the right choice for you, the next decision you need to make is “when is the right time”.

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When To Get A Second Dog

If your dog is heading towards their second birthday and is coming along well with their basic training, then now might well be a fine time to find them a friend.

However, any behavioral problems at all in your current pet, and this new family member could seriously exacerbate the issues.

If your dog has house training issues, separation anxiety, serious phobias of any kind. If he runs away when you take of his lead, or jumps all over people and knocks small children over, this is probably not the time for you to bring another pet into the mix.

Fun fact: a study carried out in the UK in 2007  found that “ dog owning households were more likely to be multi-dog households than single-dog if they also owned a cat or a bird, or if the household contained a person of 20–29 years old”.

The middle years of your older dog’s life are often the best time to make an addition to the family.

Your dog is past the biting, crying, pooping stage. More likely to be willing to play with a pup and less likely to bowl him over every five minutes. And his basic obedience should be well established.

Should I Get A Second Dog? - Helpful advice from The Labrador Site.

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She is also the founder of the Gundog Trust and the Dogsnet Online Training Program 

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  1. Hi…
    Love the website… So helpful…
    So we have a female labrador of 3 months… She is very peaceful and quite obedieny for her age: sit, down, stay, come and we are working on the drop it command. She is very social with other dogs… Like playing for a while but then prefers to have a nap next to us. So we are rescuing another puppy (i could not say no) a beagle mix male who will arrive in 2 weeks… After reading your article I am a bit scared that my lab will hurt the small puppy as she is quite bulky for 3 months. But she is very calm around us… So now after reading this I know that the timeframe is not good. But i dont want my puppies to get behavioral issues after because i brought them together at the wrong timing.
    Thanks for your help.

  2. My dog loves to play with other dogs! And it breaks my heart every time I leave the house because he stares out the window with such a sad face. But he is an attention seeker. I have two guinea pigs which he does r care about anymore because we’ve had them for 4 years (we’ve had my lab Coby for 5) he still gets a little jealous if I take them out and play with them but as long as I pet him after he doesn’t care. I really want a second smaller dog that I can play with and they won’t topple me if they jump on me. Should I get one?

  3. I have a lab that is turning 6 this June, and we’re thinking of getting a puppy in august. However, we can’t decide on a breed, and we’ve only ever had labs, so we want to try something new. What breed works well with 6 yr old labs?? She’s very friendly and happy, but really lonely. Also, will bringing another dog in the picture make her even more lonely because we pay so much attention to the new puppy? Please help.

  4. We have a 6 year old spayed female labrador and are considering a second lab. Is it better to get a female or male? What is a good age for the second dog. We don’t want to go through the puppy stage again.

  5. Hi! I really love this site. I actually have a lab which is gonna turn 5 this feb and I had an idea of buying another dog is quite friendly but the problem is that I live in an apartment and there is not much space for another lab so I was looking for a smaller breed like shih tzu. Pls tell me wether this is advisable with a lab.pls help!

  6. Can not make up my mind weather to get another dog[about 6-9 months old.] as the problem is that my existing dog is 9 now BUT I am 74 and while I still use my dog for rough shooting am not sure that I will be around to give it all the walks my present dog gets.
    Bob [Goosander] Mitchell.

  7. I have a 1 year old lab. He was introduced to a female dog about 6 months ago. It took a very long time for him to ‘warm’ up to her. They got into many fights. They are now how ever best friends. Unfortunately they have to be split now, as I am moving away. I don’t want my Lab to be lonely? But I’m scared of getting him a friend and having to introduce him to another puppy? Please help? He is a very jealous Dog – especially when it comes to me and my attention. It was just is two for the most parts – so he grew very attached to me. I am how ever going to be at work most of the day – and I don’t want him to be lonely or unhappy. Please help.