Bringing home a new puppy is a very exciting event for all the family, but the first month at home with your new Labrador puppy can be challenging.
The first few hours and days in his new home mark a major life change for your little Labrador pup, and probably for your family as well.
In this article we will look at what you will need to consider when you first walk through the door with your new puppy. We’ve also included first night survival tips and plenty of new puppy care guides and resources.
It’s normal to worry about how your puppy will adjust, but we’re here to help make sure that those first days are a magical time! And we’ll be showing you where you can get help and support when things don’t quite go to plan.
Bringing a Puppy Home
Bringing home a new puppy is a potentially stressful experience for you and the pup. Just imagine being separated in an instant from everything you’ve ever known.
Of course, it would be better if you have been able to visit your puppy regularly before collecting him. But for most people, time and distance make this an unlikely option.
Everything he sees, smells and hears, in your home will seem very strange to him at first.
Your New Puppy Will Soon Settle in
Fortunately, most puppies leave their mother and siblings at an age when they will readily accept their new friends and family.
What would be a shockingly traumatic experience for a human child, if sensibly managed will have no lasting effect at all on your puppy’s confidence or happiness.
In a few days time, he will have settled in and accepted your home as his, and your family as his new family.
How to Look After a Puppy
If this is your first puppy, you will naturally have some concerns. Bringing home a new puppy is a big responsibility. You’ll want to get everything right.
KEY PUPPY GUIDES
You’ll need our puppy care center which is packed with information. You’ll find more links and resources on that page.
These will help put your mind at rest on topics like feeding, potty training, and vaccinations. That way, you know what to expect at each stage of your puppy’s development.
But the purpose of this article is to ‘zoom in’ on those first few days and get you through them safely and happily!
Holding Your Fur Baby
The first thing to master when bringing home a new puppy is holding them the right way. If you didn’t grow up around pets or have never had a pet, this might be tricky for you.
I know I struggled with picking up a friend’s new pup, but here’s a quick tip to help you handle it like a pro. Place one hand between your pup’s legs from the front and tuck his rear between the same arm and body.
This is the most comfortable position for puppies. And if they’re especially small, this keeps them well supported.
Remembering to tuck them close is helpful particularly if you’re standing, as puppies can be afraid of heights.
It’s going to be fun!
New Puppy – First Day Home
Bringing home a new puppy is a pretty big event — your Labrador puppy’s new life is beginning and everyone will want to meet the new member of the family.
But if you have had a long car journey, the first thing your puppy will need is to pee!
Carry him in your arms to the area you want him to use for toilet purposes, and put him down there. If you put him down before you get there, he’ll probably pee right where he is.
As long as you stay in his future “bathroom spot” with him, he will probably trot about near you and hopefully relieve himself.
Your first steps in potty training have begun.
Maintaining Regular Bathroom Breaks
Puppies vary widely in how often they need to empty their bladder. Some may last an hour or more from day one, whilst others seem to need to go every 15 minutes or so. This phase doesn’t last long, but you need to be ‘on your toes’ to keep up.
During the course of the day, take the puppy to the toilet area at regular intervals (half hourly at least to begin with). In addition, take him there every time he finishes a meal or wakes from a sleep. Also, for some pups, if they’ve been playing excitedly for more than a few minutes, they probably need to pee.
NEW PUPPY TIP: In the excitement of the day, it’s easy to forget bathroom breaks. Set an alarm on your cell phone to remind you.
In no time at all, he will be able to last longer and you can gradually stretch out the gaps between ‘toilet breaks.’
You’ll find a complete potty training guide and potty training problem-solving instructions in these two links
After using the bathroom, the next thing your puppy will appreciate is a small meal. The word ‘small’ is important. Many Labrador puppies are very greedy and will eat astonishing quantities of food.
A tiny handful of food can look a bit lost in your big new bowl, but don’t be tempted to give in to those pleading puppy eyes!
New puppies are especially prone to upset tummies. The new environment and the stress of leaving home all add to the risk. You can reduce that risk by feeding little and often. It’s also best to stick to exactly the same food the puppy was eating at his last home.
If you want to change diets, do this gradually once the puppy has settled in. Don’t try to do it in the first few days.
It’s okay if you haven’t got a dog bowl yet. Any clean plate or dish will do, and if your puppy spills his food and eats it off the floor, it doesn’t matter.
Meeting the Kids
Bringing home a new puppy is an exciting time for all the family. For much of the first day, your puppy will probably be cuddled and admired. If you have young children, however, you’ll need to supervise.
Don’t let them carry him off to their rooms. They won’t remember to take him outside for a pee, and they won’t notice when he is getting overexcited, or about to poop on the carpet.
You’ll also need to show your kids how to hold the puppy. For smaller children, it’s best to hold the puppy while sitting. Kids should also be aware of safety precautions, such as learning to let the pup be if he seems uncomfortable.
Helping Your Pets Get Along
If you have an older dog, you’ll also need to supervise (and at times separate) them. Some older dogs will play too roughly with a puppy. Others will growl and appear to reject the puppy at first. These are normal reactions but they do indicate that you are going to need to keep a close eye on things for a while.
A baby gate or other barrier is a perfect way to keep a puppy from annoying the resident dog or cat while they adjust to the newcomer.
In the early days after bringing home a new puppy, you’ll need to be his guardian angel and make sure he gets plenty of chances to rest and sleep. Don’t worry, the novelty will soon wear off, and life will return to normal.
As the day draws to a close, your thoughts will turn to night time, and getting your puppy to sleep! Let’s take a look now at the first night with a new puppy
First Night with Puppy
The first night with a new puppy often goes one of two ways. Either the puppy sleeps like a log and you don’t hear a peep out of him until morning. Or he howls the house down.
There are two approaches to choosing where a puppy sleeps for those first few nights. One is to get him used to his permanent sleeping quarters right from the start. The other is to have him next to your bed until he has got over his homesickness (usually three or four days).
The problem with the first approach is that you won’t know whether or not you have a ‘howler’ until you close that door and walk away. And if you keep going back, the howling may well increase.
It’s up to you (and possibly your neighbors), of course. But we recommend having the puppy next to your bed for the first three nights. This reduces the risk of getting into an increasing spiral of night howling or having your puppy miserable for the first week.
Can My Pup Sleep in My Bed?
It isn’t a good idea to have a dog that isn’t house trained sleeping in your bed, even if you intend to do so later. Small puppies fall out of beds and even if they don’t hurt themselves, will then pee or poop quietly on your bedroom carpet. Which you won’t discover until you step in it next morning.
If you don’t want to lift his crate up and down the stairs, find a deep sturdy cardboard box. Just pop his blankets in there and put the box right next to where you sleep. He’ll be able to hear and smell you. And most puppies don’t cry at night if you do this.
Unless you intend to ‘paper train’ your puppy indoors, you will need to take him outside in the night, for at least the first week. You can get tips and advice on how to manage this in our potty training guide, but it’s important to recognize that this is normal.
Puppy Tips for the First Week
Let’s sum up at this point. The first day is about getting into a routine of regular bathroom breaks, helping kids and other pets meet the puppy and interact with him appropriately, feeding him little and often, and just getting to know this new furry person.
After bringing home a new puppy, your main objective is to bond with him.
Spend lots of time with your puppy. Make him feel at home. Pay him a lot of attention when he is quiet, fuss and praise him when he pees outside. Don’t forget to feed him often, and clear up accidents without comment.
Talk to him when he is sleepy and dozing in your arms. Say his name softly and often as he eats and as you cuddle him. He is very new and hasn’t a clue what you want from him. Be patient and calm, and he will too.
Once he has settled in, there will be plenty of time to think about training, but for now just enjoy his Labrador puppy loveliness, and that scrummy new puppy smell. It will be gone all too soon, replaced by a bouncing, boisterous, and joyful friend who all too often smells of pond water.
Don’t Forget to See the Vet
It is advised that you see the vet within the first week of bringing home a new puppy. While some people may go straight from the breeder to the vet, some vets advise that you take a couple of days to know your pup before getting things rolling at the vet’s.
Seeing the vet with your new puppy is important because they can identify any abnormalities, worms, fleas, and such. You can also ask the vet questions — which is great when you’re a new pet owner.
Puppy Training – First Month Home
There will be ‘accidents,’ puddles, and poops indoors, possibly on a daily basis initially. It helps if you remember that each of these is your fault – not the puppy’s.
Remember, you are responsible for ensuring he has sufficient visits to his ‘toilet area.’
Never punish a puppy for house-training accidents; it is pointless as he has no control and no understanding of what is expected.
What you are doing is establishing good habits, which will last a lifetime.
What About Crate Training?
A quality dog crate is an excellent source of help with potty-training. It just has to be small enough and the puppy should not be left inside it for longer than his immature bladder can hold its contents. For some puppies, this is not very long at all.
Of course, it is possible to potty train your puppy without using a crate. Plus, crates are not a good idea in homes where people are out often. It makes it easy to leave puppies shut in for too long.
You’ll find some great crate training advice and schedules in our detailed crate training guide
The Confident Puppy
Your key focus for the first month with your new puppy, will be socializing him. Socialization is a big part of bringing home a new puppy. This is the process we take puppies through, to make sure they are comfortable with all aspects of living in human society. You’d be surprised how scary our strange routines are for dogs.
For instance, dogs need to be confident around things like vehicles and machines. They should be happy to meet people of all different shapes and sizes and to go boldly wherever people want to take them.
A confident dog is not just a happy dog; he is a safe dog. Keep in mind that almost all dog bites are triggered by ‘fear.’ So, making sure your dog isn’t afraid of anything he’s likely to meet will keep him and those around him safe.
Socializing also means taking your puppy out and about. Naturally, many worry about exposing a not-yet-fully vaccinated puppy to the risk of infection. You can find out more about this issue in our guide “When Can I Take My Puppy Out”
Can I Start Training My New Puppy?
Yes you can! If you use modern dog training methods, you can get going right after bringing home a new puppy!
Check out our puppy training center for more information. There are also some great ‘habits’ that you can and should start from the beginning.
Establishing Good Habits
Your Labrador puppy when full grown will weigh some 70 or 80 lbs and be capable of creating a great deal of noise. For many people, life with an adult Labrador is not the pleasurable experience they anticipated when they first brought their puppy home.
Many Labrador owners wish they had instilled better habits from the beginning. To co-exist happily with a large dog, it is necessary to teach certain behaviors.
One of these is ‘keeping his paws on the floor,’ and another is ‘keeping quiet.’ Jumping is a big problem with big dogs, so while puppy paws on your leg are cute, it’s a good idea to discourage this.
Gently move away from your puppy and refuse to pet him or give him any attention when he jumps. Reward and encourage him for keeping all four paws on the ground. This takes patience but it’s well worth doing from the very start.
The Quiet Dog
One of the most common problems people have with their dogs, is noise. Barking at neighbours, whining, and yapping in the home. Noise is also a common reason why dogs are abandoned at shelters. Unfortunately, puppy parents unknowingly encourage this habit from an early age.
True, noisemaking comes more naturally to some dogs than others. However, it is often possible to prevent this pattern from developing by following a few simple rules from the first day.
Within the first few hours after bringing home a new puppy, he’ll probably make some noise. Expect anything from whimpers to general whining, to a full blown barking session. He will look at you, wag his little tail furiously, and make sweet little sounds.
Most owners see noises as an attempt to communicate — which of course they are — and immediately respond. They coo, “Hello then, are you hungry?” Or, “Let’s get you some dinner shall we?”
Unknowingly, they’ve shown the puppy that making a noise gets him some attention. This can quickly lead to constant whimpering, yapping, and whining. With such powerful reinforcement, he is now likely to repeat the behavior in the near future.
Encouraging Quiet Behavior
If you would like to have a well-mannered dog, be prepared from the start to ignore any noise your puppy makes. He will quickly learn that there are better ways of interacting with you.
You and other members of your family will be tempted when your puppy ‘talks’ to you, to talk back. But if you want to avoid having a whiny or yappy dog, resist the temptation to engage your puppy in conversation.
Instead, chat to him when he is sitting quietly or carrying something in his mouth. That way, you reward and encourage good behavior.
You might also like to read our article on how to stop a puppy crying.
Many Labrador puppies just love to pick up and carry things around. Make sure you put away what he should not have.
If your puppy picks up something which belongs to you, don’t chase him. Rather, swap it for a tasty treat. It helps to keep a pot of these ready in your refrigerator.
If you want to play retrieving games with your dog later on (and we recommend that you do), then pet and praise him for carrying things. Also, read up on retrieving to make sure you don’t kill off his retrieving instincts.
Another problem that many dog owners experience is a dog that runs off or doesn’t come when called. You can avoid this with a few precautions.
PUPPY RECALL TIP: Never call the puppy by whistle or by his name unless he is already running towards you. And never chase after a puppy.
Puppy recall training starts right after bringing home a new puppy. Build an association between the act of running towards you and the sound of the recall word or whistle.
If you call the puppy and he does not come, you will have begun to teach him that the recall command is optional. Check out our puppy recall training video to give you an idea of how easy it is to build this a good association if you start off in the right way.
You can find out more about building a great recall from the beginning in Total Recall. But for now, in these first few days at home together, make sure no one calls the puppy to them. When they want him, they can simply pick him up.
If he runs away, all they need to do is run in the opposite direction and he will come chasing after them.
Bringing Home a New Puppy – Summary
Try to get good toilet habits started from day one, with lots of trips to the ‘bathroom zone’ in your yard.
For the first few days after bringing home a new puppy, focus on bonding and helping him to feel safe. And don’t forget that first trip to the vet!
Learn to pick up your pup the right way by placing your palm under his chest and tucking his rear to your torso.
Consider having your puppy next to your bed for the first few nights. This will comfort him while he is feeling homesick and missing his mom and playmates.
Expect to get up in the night to take your puppy out to pee for at least the first couple of weeks. Set a reminder to avoid teaching your puppy to cry for your attention.
During his daytime naps, dive into the feeding, potty training, and obedience training guides mentioned in this article, and head over to the forum for support from our other readers, many of whom have been where you are now, and come safely out the other side!
If you want help choosing an adorable puppy name, make sure you take a look at this article too!
More Information on Puppies
Published in April 2014, the Happy Puppy covers every aspect of life with a small puppy.
The book will help you prepare for bringing home a new puppy, and get your puppy off to a great start with potty training, socialization and early obedience.
The Happy Puppy Handbook is available worldwide.
Make sure you also check out our guide to taking puppies outside.
”Bringing Home a New Puppy” has been extensively revised and updated for 2019
Veterinary Medicine, Dvm360. Bergman, L. VMD, DACVB Ensuring a Behaviorally Healthy Pet-Child Relationship
Psychology Today. Coren, S. PhD., DSc, FRSC Aggression Between Dogs in the Same Household
Veterinary Record, Vol 182. Limb, M. (2018). New pet owner ignorance–still a problem.
The Labrador Site Founder
Pippa Mattinson is the best selling author of The Happy Puppy Handbook, the Labrador Handbook, Choosing The Perfect Puppy, and Total Recall.
She is also the founder of the Gundog Trust and the Dogsnet Online Training Program
Pippa's online training courses were launched in 2019 and you can find the latest course dates on the Dogsnet website